Hi there, my name's Sally. I'm 16, and I currently live in Canada. Feel free to ask/tell me anything! :)
But who can say what’s best? That’s why you need to grab whatever chance you have of happiness where you find it, and not worry about other people too much. My experience tells me that we get no more than two or three such chances in a life time, and if we let them go, we regret it for the rest of our lives.
Posted on Dec 17th (10:16pm), 6 hours ago
Life becomes easier when you learn to accept an apology you never got.
Posted on Dec 17th (10:02pm), 7 hours ago
day 196/365 (by roxy ongpin)
Would ‘sorry’ have made any difference? Does it ever? It’s just a word. One word against a thousand actions.
Posted on Dec 15th (11:14pm), 2 days ago
Sometimes you laugh because you’ve got no more room for crying.
Posted on Dec 15th (11:07pm), 2 days ago
I noticed everything. I just act like I didn’t.
Posted on Dec 15th (11:03pm), 2 days ago
If someone really loves you, no matter how many other people they meet, their feelings for you wouldn’t change. A real lover can’t be stolen.
Posted on Dec 13th (1:14am), 5 days ago
Posted on Dec 12th (5:18pm), 5 days ago
Be kind to yourself. Stop telling yourself that whatever you are struggling with “should” be easy. If something is hard for you, it is hard for you. There are probably reasons, though those may just be how you are wired. Acknowledge these things. When you finish something hard, be proud! Celebrate a little.
And really, just stop saying “should” to yourself about your thoughts and feelings in any context. You feel how you feel. The things in your head are the things in your head. You can’t change either directly through sheer force of will. You can only change what you do. Stop beating yourself up for who and what you are right now–it isn’t productive. Focus on moving forward.
321/365: forever mixing song lyrics with handwritten watercolor type
143/365: reassure me because i’m not fully convinced
You are not clingy, or needy, or silly for having needs for affection and affirmation and attention within a romantic relationship. Those needs aren’t an embarrassing outgrowth of your low-self esteem or depression or whatever messy emotional issues you may have going on, that’s just basic shit that people need from each other. We of course should not make our partners responsible for meeting all of our emotional needs – it’s not someone’s else’s job to make you happy. But inside a healthy relationship, being able to show affection, pay attention, and demonstrate “you are amazing and important to me” is a pleasure, not some task or burden.
Posted on Dec 10th (8:36pm), 1 week ago
Sometimes, someone says something really small and it just fits right into this empty place in your heart.
Posted on Dec 10th (8:31pm), 1 week ago